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Found this at 3am. I felt so seen. I smiled a lot too.

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Well said, Ashlee--it is a dance for sure, to find that balance between writing and 'hey, read my writing!' Right?

FWIW, Anne Lamott was my first writing hero and I remember very clearly when her first book came out--1979, the year my daughter was born. I don't think websites were even invented then, right?

Thank you for the smiles and sharing your story.

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oh goodness YES. this made me laugh and smile so much. WWALD

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My new motto is going to be: What would Ashlee Gadd do?

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Relatable x 100 not only for enneagram 3, Jenna Kutcher and the lead magnet pull but because this tension is real and you always find a way to acknowledge that with wisdom.

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April Hoss and I used to have sticky notes on our phones with,"What would Emily do?" on it. Probably NOT be checking her phone, is what.

Hey and also, this is a story about not writing, yeah? You and I, we should write a book.

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I loved this, made me smile.

1. I love your lead magnet.

2. I hope you get to me Anne one day!

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I laughed so hard at this. I did the EXACT same thing as you back in my early blogging days because surprise, surprise, I learned it from Jenna Kutcher. I've been here on Substack for four years and I have probably fifty more subscribers now than I did four years ago. I have no lead magnets, no social media on which to promote my work, no website even. Just a belief that I happen to like what I'm writing and that the right people will find me if they're meant to. And, if not? Well, I've had a lot of fun writing on Substack all these years and no words are ever wasted.

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Loved reading this. AND I have never read a book by Anne Lamott. Where should I start?

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I couldn’t love this more. Now I have to search my aging brain for what we called these “back in the day.”

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This absolutely makes my day! Thanks for making us laugh, smile, and nod our heads a thousand times over at every turn of this piece. You’re a great writer, Ashlee!

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Loved this and I also clicked on that lead magnet - I read every word and felt inspired! The book stack poetry idea is so fun!!!

But yes - I could FEEL it when you were talking about the process of creating it and all the hours - I relate to what that feels like mentally, physically and emotionally!

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oh goodness YES. this made me laugh and smile so much. WWALD

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How did you know I needed this today? I am forever borrowing those two questions. Brilliant.

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I love this so much!

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I laughed, cried, and painfully related to every word. I remember when I was researching my own lead magnet, I stumbled across the exact same realization about Patron Saint Anne and thinking - What on earth am I doing? I loved the way you invite the challenge while not putting writing and marketing entirely against one another.

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